Ravings of a Picky Girl

When I'm the photographer, my subjects get the very best pictures of them they could have...why is it that I can't have the same? Is it too much to ask to have nice pictures of myself taken by others? :( It is very frustrating to me every time I get reminded that not every one is capable of good framing. It's not a science people! Just don't leave any room on top of my head and none under my feet! Ay, me...